...using Infragistics2.Win.UltraWinGrid.v9.2.dll

On FormA I have a grid named MissingGrid.  I need to open FormB with two grids (Grid1 & Grid2) and I want these two grids to be an exact copy of MissingGrid (minus the actual data).  All three grids will be bound to the same schema (new BindingList<MissingLanguageDTO>).  None of the grids have any design time schema or column collections.  In FormA I use the InitializeLayout() method to define MissingGrid. My goal was to avoid duplicating this code in two forms.

QUESTION:

How do I copy the layout, including columns, size, position, header properties, etc at runtime from one grid to another?

WHAT I'M DOING NOW:

in the constructor of FormB I'm passing the stream from the following code in FormA.  this i
private void button1_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            MemoryStream ms = new MemoryStream();
            MissingGrid.DisplayLayout.Save(ms, UltraGrid.PropertyCategories.All);
            LanguageTabMissingPopup popupForm = new LanguageTabMissingPopup(fileKey, ms);
            popupForm.ShowDialog();
        }

In FormB I have:

protected override void OnLoad(EventArgs e)
        {
            base.OnLoad(e);
            
            //essentially copy the grid layout from the parent form
            this.TheGridLayout.Position = 0;
            RequestGrid.DisplayLayout.Load(TheGridLayout, UltraGrid.PropertyCategories.All);
            this.TheGridLayout.Position = 0;
            ImagedGrid.DisplayLayout.Load(TheGridLayout, UltraGrid.PropertyCategories.All);

            BindGrid();
            ToggleButtons();

        }

        private void BindGrid()
        {
            ImagedGrid.SetDataBinding(new BindingList<MissingLanguageDTO>( MissingDocs.Where(m => m.IsToBeImagedToFile).ToList()), null, true);
            RequestGrid.SetDataBinding(new BindingList<MissingLanguageDTO>( MissingDocs.Where(m => !m.IsToBeImagedToFile).ToList()), null, true);
        }

When FormB opens, Grid1 & Grid2 only have 3 of the fields that are visible on MissingGrid.  My understanding is that the DisplayLayou.Load() method should bring over the grid, its columns with their configurations.

 Strangly when I break in the InitializeRow() method in FormB all of the properties are indeed set as I expect them, the grid simply is not reflecting that. Below you see that only LineNumbers is hidden.  This is as expected.

e.Row.Band.Columns.Band.Columns.All    {Infragistics.Shared.IKeyedSubObject[13]}
+        [0]    {GroupNumber}    
+        [1]    {LanguageIndicator}    
+        [2]    {State}    
+        [3]    {DateOfService}    
+        [4]    {GroupStartDate}    
+        [5]    {GroupEndDate}    
+        [6]    {LangIndStartDate}    
+        [7]    {LangIndStopDate}    
+        [8]    {LineNumbers [hidden]}    
+        [9]    {IsToBeImagedToFile}    
+        [10] {GroupDateRange}    
+        [11] {LanguageDateRange}    
+        [12] {ClaimNo}